At home, like the Passover
So, you or someone with you will have to act as a leader if you are to actually celebrate – which is more than tuning in to a celebration – these great days. Let’s not forget, everyone who is baptized is able to stand before God and lead some sort of worship – it is a basic Christian dignity.
What are we doing on Holy Thursday? Here is our challenge: to experience anew (that is what we mean when we use words like “remember” or “recall”) being the friends of the Christ around a table (Jn 15, 15): so we pray at a meal;
to experience that we Christians have a different vision of human relationships which is based on mutual service: so we read the story of Jesus’ act of foot-washing and note that we are Christian sisters and brothers at the table;
despite the virus, we are rejoicing in God’s love and so offer him praise, blessing him through, with and in Jesus: so we will use table prayers from his very earliest followers; and we are reliving a household liturgy in an actual house setting.
These household liturgies seem strange. But recall that the Passover meal was eaten in ordinary households and that praying around a table is what we are always reading about in the gospels, not least in the story of the Last Supper which we want to experience for ourselves this night.
Your evening meal
Have your main meal in the evening and realize that it is a feast – we are thanking the Father for delivering us from sin and death through his Son: this is our Passover. What makes a feast? Simple answer: more than one course.
If it is only beans on toast, have a second course which is a scoop of ice cream or coffee and a biscuit. But I hope you can manage a much better feast than beans on toast!
We give thanks
When everyone who is taking part has sat down, take a small loaf of bread (a bread roll is ideal), or just a couple of slices, on a plate and bless the Father using this first-century prayer for household gatherings of Christians:
We give thanks to you, our Father, for the life and knowledge which you have made known to us. Through Jesus, your servant, to you be glory forever. For as this broken loaf was once scattered over the mountains and then was gathered in and became one, so may your Church be gathered together into your kingdom from the very ends of the earth. Yours is the glory and the power through Jesus Christ forever.
Then break up the loaf (or slices) into as many pieces as there are people around the table,
and then pass the dish around for each to take a piece to eat.
Then take a glass of wine (or grape-juice or just lemonade) and bless the Father saying (or ask someone else to say this prayer):
We give thanks to you, our Father, for the holy vine of David, your servant, which you have made known to us. Through Jesus, your servant, to you be glory forever.
Pass the glass from one to another each drinking from the one cup.
A passage from John’s gospel
Then enjoy whatever you are going to eat, and between the courses get someone else to
read this story (Jn 13, 1-15):
Now before the festival of the Passover, Jesus knew that his hour had come to depart from
this world and go to the Father. Having loved his own who were in the world, he loved them to the end.
The devil had already put it into the heart of Judas son of Simon Iscariot to betray him.
And during supper Jesus, knowing that the Father had given all things into his hands, and
that he had come from God and was going to God, got up from the table, took off his outer
robe, and tied a towel around himself.
Then he poured water into a basin and began to wash the disciples’ feet and to wipe them
with the towel that was tied around him.
He came to Simon Peter, who said to him, “Lord, are you going to wash my feet?” Jesus
answered, “You do not know now what I am doing, but later you will understand.”
Peter said to him, “You will never wash my feet.” Jesus answered, “Unless I wash you, you
have no share with me.”
Simon Peter said to him, “Lord, not my feet only but also my hands and my head!” Jesus
said to him, “One who has bathed does not need to wash, except for the feet, but is entirely
clean. And you are clean, though not all of you.”
For he knew who was to betray him; for this reason he said, “Not all of you are clean.”
After he had washed their feet, had put on his robe, and had returned to the table, he said to
them, “Do you know what I have done to you? You call me Teacher and Lord — and you
are right, for that is what I am. So, if I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you
also ought to wash one another’s feet. For I have set you an example, that you also should
do as I have done to you.
Continue with your meal, and “after you all have had enough to eat, give thanks in this
We give you thanks, holy Father, for your holy name which you have made to dwell in our
hearts, and for the knowledge and faith and immortality which you have made known to
Through Jesus, your servant, to you be glory forever.
You are the mighty ruler of all who has created all for your name’s sake, and you have
given food and drink to human beings for their enjoyment so that they might give thanks to
you. But to us, from your generosity, you have given spiritual food and drink, and life eternal, through your servant.
Above all things we give thanks to you because you are mighty: to you be glory forever.
Remember, Lord, your church, deliver her from evil, make her complete in your love, and
gather her from the four winds into your kingdom you have prepared for her, for yours is
the power and the glory forever.
When meal is over
Mark (14, 46) tells us that when the meal was finished “they sang a hymn” and then
You cannot go anywhere, but it is important to end on note of joy. So, what is your favorite
hymn? Do all know the words? Can all sing it?
If not, when the washing-up is done, recalling that the hymn mentioned by Mark was
probably a psalm, why not use this one (Ps 117 – it’s the shortest):
Praise the Lord, all you nations!
Extol him, all you peoples!
For great is his steadfast love toward us;
and the faithfulness of the Lord endures for ever.
Praise the Lord!
For those people where the virus is still out of control, this cannot be a “normal” Holy
Thursday, but we may have discovered new aspects of our discipleship – and recovered
long-forgotten parts of our tradition – through celebrating in this very unusual way.
By courtesy of Father Thomas O’Loughlin
Photograph by courtesy of Willie McHugh, “Mayo News”